tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post6102743638078939284..comments2024-03-23T16:12:56.472+07:00Comments on ANDIYANI ACHMAD: [PARENTING INFO] What Is Wrong Being A Working Moms?Andiyani Achmadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13412302632256488727noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-5694159976245706982016-12-12T21:08:24.520+07:002016-12-12T21:08:24.520+07:00Masya allah.. meskipun aku belum jadi seorang mom,...Masya allah.. meskipun aku belum jadi seorang mom, tapi insyaa allah mungkin akan merasakan hal yang sama dg mbak Aie. Mungkin karena Nisa jg tumbuh dengan kasih sayang seorang ibu yang juga bekerja, jadi sekarang bisa belajar menjadi sepertinya. Insyaa Allah, Allah kasih balasan berlipat ganda ya mbak Aie. <br /><br />Oh ya, biar makin semangat, aku kasih tulisan bagus dari temenku boleh ya? Semoga makin semangat jadi seorang working mom :)<br /><br />https://dewinaisyah.wordpress.com/2016/07/23/istri-paruh-waktu-atau-hamba-sepenuh-waktu/Anissa Rizkiantihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03045426010837307862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-44616119896364525672016-11-01T04:26:23.968+07:002016-11-01T04:26:23.968+07:00Sebagian mommies sering kelebihan energi dan kekur...Sebagian mommies sering kelebihan energi dan kekurangan kerjaan hingga doyan banget menyulut mom war. Adaaaa aja yang diributin. Padahal coba ya kalo energi itu disalurkan untuk memotivasi dan mendukung sesama mommies. Setuju banget tuh sama kalimat terakhirnya :)Triani Retno Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05992890332514340273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-17293007431954093812016-10-01T12:41:26.344+07:002016-10-01T12:41:26.344+07:00I totally agreed with you :) I totally agreed with you :) Andiyani Achmadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13412302632256488727noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-47644076882946835862016-10-01T12:40:59.360+07:002016-10-01T12:40:59.360+07:00Setuju anet kakaaaaa :)Setuju anet kakaaaaa :)Andiyani Achmadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13412302632256488727noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-36345388039971457942016-09-29T08:49:33.468+07:002016-09-29T08:49:33.468+07:00Apapun pilihan kita, selama itu diridhoi oleh suam...Apapun pilihan kita, selama itu diridhoi oleh suami dan anak, Insya Allah menjadi ladang pahala kita dimanapun dan apapun yang kita kerjakan. setuju ? :)Aninditahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01998333980634330660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-4346186610673003652016-09-27T16:24:22.349+07:002016-09-27T16:24:22.349+07:00I'm a stay-at-home mom with businesses going o...I'm a stay-at-home mom with businesses going on. Both my mom & sister have always been corporate/institution working moms, so I get where you are coming from. Before I was married and had a baby, I had always romanticized the idea of being a working mom - you know, having your own life, more money/empowerment to myself, and encouraging kids to be independent, academically-successful and respectful of women etc etc.<br /><br />That being said, that all changed when:<br />1. I had my little bub. I just couldn't trust him with any other person, still exclusively breastfeeding (selalu gagal mompa pula hiks) and decided to wait until he's finished BF-ing at 2 yo.. which is pretty soon from now!<br />2. I discovered that I can have it both way. You know, self-empowerment, money, lots of quality time with kids, etc. And so husband and I have a myriads of businesses while he also stays working as full-time manager. I also keep maintaining close contacts while getting new friends/accolades through groups, exercise classes etc.<br />3. There is no right and wrong way to raise a kid.<br />Sure we all have principles, but at the end of the day, every family know what is best for their own units. Having both parents who are corporate workers may work for some, but may not work for other families. <br />4. I could point out also the benefits of having a stay-at-home mom in the family, but those we can easily google :)<br /><br />To sum it up, this mommy war has become too old. So one mom is better cause she a masters/undergraduate degree, or she can/can not cook, breastfeeding/bottle-feeding, working/staying-at-home, live in this part/that part of Jakarta, wearing this type of clothing or brand etc etc... how many more centuries can we claim to be "better" just because we deem it better for ourselves and or our little families?<br /><br />Here's a little secret:<br />We don't have to. None is better than the other. As women we can - and MUST choose what is uniquely best for our little ones. It is our prerogative. <br /><br />God knows how many times other moms have criticized me for whatever decision I've taken with regard to child-rearing (I'm a health-conscious, Dr Sears' attachment-parenting type of mom. Definitely not your typical mak mak Indonesa).<br /><br />Even my mom & sister used to criticize my decision not to pursue a corporate career - they think I'd just sit around at home, waiting for le husband to lay his money on my hands.. UNTIL they see how actually busy and accomplished (both psychologically and financially) I am as of now :)<br /><br />Gotta love your last quote:<br />"Working Moms, Stay at Home Moms, <br />They're Both Extremely Hard Jobs on Earth."<br />.... I just wish more individuals could really understand this. Anonym - just another young-ish momma :)https://www.blogger.com/profile/03045670983308322397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-44324673465681018162016-09-22T11:53:46.790+07:002016-09-22T11:53:46.790+07:00Bunbes....aku terhura, setiap perempuan itu udah p...Bunbes....aku terhura, setiap perempuan itu udah pasti superwoman hehehe. Kalau kita selalu positif, insya Allah energi pun positif. Karena suami nggak bisa bedain lipen 30rb sama 300rb *eh* hahahaha :pswastikagiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00404119134016804452noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-31225339407289834312016-09-20T08:57:40.547+07:002016-09-20T08:57:40.547+07:00Hi Fanny iya banget ya, aku pun merasakan demikian...Hi Fanny iya banget ya, aku pun merasakan demikian :) thanks komennya :)Andiyani Achmadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13412302632256488727noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-683307924465870462016-09-20T08:56:49.417+07:002016-09-20T08:56:49.417+07:00Hana, maaciih supportnya :)Hana, maaciih supportnya :)Andiyani Achmadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13412302632256488727noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-84247136494887076302016-09-19T22:34:52.622+07:002016-09-19T22:34:52.622+07:00poin ke2, bener bangetttttttt ^o^... dengan kerja,...poin ke2, bener bangetttttttt ^o^... dengan kerja, aku jauuuh lbh bahagia mba... pas maternity 3 bulan aja aku lgs pusing pgn cepet kerja lagi.. bosen to the maxlah di rumah aja... -_-.. makanya pas ada wacana maternity harusnya 6 bulan, aku trmasuk yg tidak setuju ;p.. dan dgn kerja, ga ada ceritanya bujuk2 suami utk minta tambahan uang buat traveling cth nya:D fanny fristhika nilahttp://dcatqueen.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-10720550497270286752016-09-19T19:11:08.391+07:002016-09-19T19:11:08.391+07:00Setuju mba :D umi hana juga working mom :) semanga...Setuju mba :D umi hana juga working mom :) semangat mba aie :DHana Bilqisthihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17002246211370783064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-19721199882499766162016-09-19T16:28:45.631+07:002016-09-19T16:28:45.631+07:00Satujuh mambes.... Satujuh mambes.... Andiyani Achmadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13412302632256488727noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-4327190477574287912016-09-19T16:25:27.535+07:002016-09-19T16:25:27.535+07:00Nah ini salah satu alasannya juga hehehe :)Nah ini salah satu alasannya juga hehehe :)Andiyani Achmadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13412302632256488727noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-64409673957775273692016-09-19T16:24:35.552+07:002016-09-19T16:24:35.552+07:00Ifa thanks untuk supportnya :)Ifa thanks untuk supportnya :)Andiyani Achmadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13412302632256488727noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-42892303294668991632016-09-19T13:08:31.570+07:002016-09-19T13:08:31.570+07:00Apapun situasi & kondisinya, Ibu tetaplah Ibu,...Apapun situasi & kondisinya, Ibu tetaplah Ibu, semua hebat semua sayang anak :) Sandra Buana Sarihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12754230031552470730noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-12634631013608966152016-09-19T12:45:39.823+07:002016-09-19T12:45:39.823+07:00Kalau kita kerja kan jadi ngga ngerecokin uang rum...Kalau kita kerja kan jadi ngga ngerecokin uang rumah tangga kalau mau beli lipen, hahaha :pDini Puspitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16703878901722659907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-56773976734473599842016-09-19T12:45:26.484+07:002016-09-19T12:45:26.484+07:00Kalau kita kerja kan jadi ngga ngerecokin uang rum...Kalau kita kerja kan jadi ngga ngerecokin uang rumah tangga kalau mau beli lipen, hahaha :pDini Puspitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16703878901722659907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-38491411398998739732016-09-19T12:40:26.835+07:002016-09-19T12:40:26.835+07:00Setujuu sama point pointnya Ka Aiee. Working moms ...Setujuu sama point pointnya Ka Aiee. Working moms jugaa sama challengingnya dengan Stay at home moms, aku pun rencananya nanti pas punya anak tetep pengen bekerja hehe. Semangat selaluu Ka Aiee :)ifalifahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18374966437448501622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-36996080631487929952016-09-19T12:39:28.585+07:002016-09-19T12:39:28.585+07:00emberan cyiin.. ga kelar sampe bumi tak bundar lag...emberan cyiin.. ga kelar sampe bumi tak bundar lagi yee heheheheh :)Andiyani Achmadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13412302632256488727noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-90241520666597032842016-09-19T12:38:58.424+07:002016-09-19T12:38:58.424+07:00semua wanita superwoman ifa, pasti bisa manage wak...semua wanita superwoman ifa, pasti bisa manage waktu sebaik2 mungkin apalagi buat anaknya hehehhe, cium ifaaa :)Andiyani Achmadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13412302632256488727noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-73464736161271677532016-09-19T12:29:14.843+07:002016-09-19T12:29:14.843+07:00Issshh jagoan anet cih bunda darell. Mau ibu beker...Issshh jagoan anet cih bunda darell. Mau ibu bekerja atau di rumah aja, dua2nya tetap mulia dan sama syuliiitnyaaa.. Kalo dibanding2in mah ngga akan kelar ya cyiiin.. hahaha.Lisna Dwi Ardhinihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02908761704450699130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-32587507736780920102016-09-19T12:26:52.974+07:002016-09-19T12:26:52.974+07:00ku fansya kaka aieee:P
aku aja segini blm berumah...ku fansya kaka aieee:P<br /><br />aku aja segini blm berumah tangga udah merasa lelah dan masih susah memanage waktu/ Selalu salut sama macan macan yang aktif tapi tetap telaten ngurus anak. Goodluck & keep fighting kaka aie :Difa musyrifahhttp://www.imusyrifah.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-58810232337965140202016-09-19T12:18:50.246+07:002016-09-19T12:18:50.246+07:00aku tersipu idhan :) aku tersipu idhan :) Andiyani Achmadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13412302632256488727noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2145843554149455308.post-74005343224276887242016-09-19T11:54:04.837+07:002016-09-19T11:54:04.837+07:00Apa pun pilihannya. Tetap kereenn jadi seorang Ibu...Apa pun pilihannya. Tetap kereenn jadi seorang Ibu. Salud lah sama working moms yg bisa membagi waktunya. Suka heran dan takjub juga sama Mba Aie. Gilee udh kerja, ngurus rumah-tangga, sempat ngeblog dan lebih rutin ngeblog ketimbang eyke *angkattopi* mobilitasnya tinggi.. weekend tetep aktif keluar pulak, gilee nda ada lelahnya. Jadi begitu, buat aku yg masih single termotivasi buat lebih aktif lagi dr working moms yg kece2 ini.. <br />semangaatt bu... emak... Since86https://www.blogger.com/profile/04028251426372090813noreply@blogger.com